Over the last couple of years, my daughter has been struggling with emotional dysregulation. The irony of a therapist’s child having big emotions is not lost on me… and yet, here we are. Life has a way of humbling you like that. When she was around three, the reactions came fast and fierce — yelling, scratching, hitting, slapping. It always came out with me. I was the safe person. I knew what that meant professionally. I could explain it clinically. I could validate it logica

I don't know how to do "simple" What I imagine I look like If you know me in real life, you know this already:I do not do “simple.” My ADHD does not understand the concept of low-key. I don’t half-commit. I don’t tone it down. I don’t gently tiptoe into things. I leap. Fully dressed. With power tools and frosting. And this year? This year I leapt straight into holiday-season birthday chaos with two kids whose birthday parties land 4 weeks of each other. During Christmas. Beca

There’s a moment—usually around day 47 of no actual sleep—when a parent looks around their kitchen, takes in the half-drunk coffee on the counter, the toddler scribbles taped to the fridge, the scattered socks that may or may not be clean, and thinks to themselves: “Sleeping would be nice.” And honestly? That’s it. That’s the whole prayer. As a therapist and a mom (and a wife, caregiver, ADHD human, professional sarcastic summarizer, and deeply committed over-functioner), I’v

“You’re Not That Special” There are sentences that follow you through your career, whether you intend them to or not. Some therapists have a favourite grounding technique or a list of sensory tools they reach for. Me? I have a sentence that pops out of my mouth so often that my clients now beat me to it. “You’re not that special.” If you’re new here, welcome to the inside of my brain. I’m Ashley — a Licensed Counselling Therapist in Moncton, originally a Nova Scotian girl wit

If you’ve made it here, welcome. This space — this blog, this shop, this little corner of the internet — has been a dream of mine for a long time. But getting it here took work, heart, vulnerability, and more late nights than I can count. I want to start this blog with honesty. Because the truth is: I’m not just a creator. I’m a full-time therapist, a full-time mom, a wife, a daughter, a friend, a caregiver… and someone doing her best to keep all the spinning plates from cras

Mental health is a crucial aspect of overall well-being, yet it can be particularly complex for neurodivergent individuals. Whether you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, dyslexia, or any other neurodivergent condition, understanding how to manage your mental health can significantly improve your quality of life. This blog post will provide practical tips tailored specifically for neurodivergent individuals, helping you navigate daily challenges and enhance your mental we

In today's fast-paced world, self-care has become more than just a trend; it’s a necessity. Finding moments to unwind and recharge is crucial for our mental and emotional well-being. One of the simplest yet most effective ways to practice self-care is by creating a cozy environment at home. This blog post will explore essential items that can enhance your self-care routine, focusing on the comforting presence of mugs, candles, and more. The Power of a Good Mug Choosing the Ri

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